Chronosdreamreal: And Star Trader would be played via some system to which nevet is connected?
ChronosSuch as IRC?
Chronosdreamreal: I would say any politician that votes in favor of the Ten Commandments being displayed at public schools through force of law qualifies as "Christian Nationalist".
jreicherMaybe they just really liked the movie
* jreicher joined #nevet
ChronosIt's a great movie :)
dreamrealChronos: re: star trader, yeah
dreamrealany system nevet is connected to would support it
dreamrealas far as the ten commandments... they're not CHRISTIAN
dreamrealso I'm not sure how they represent CHRISTIAN NATIONALISM as much as a common set of mores
dreamrealI'd say rigid adherence to EVERY ONE of the ten commandments would violate separation of church and state, but that doesn't mean they can't be posted, even by law, although *I* wouldn't advocate for such a law myself. And posting them isn't the same as enforcing them: they're really a signal saying "look, this is representative of our common mores, we don't murder, we don't steal, we don't lie, we
dreamrealvalue THESE things, whatever they might mean to you"
dreamrealand that's sort of how you build a society, especially from such disparate cultural backgrounds: "We're American, which means we more or less agree on these ideals, although an individual can waver in how much they care about each one"
jreicherCertainly adultery isn't what it used to be.
dreamreal"darn."
dreamrealI mean, I find adultery to be awful: 0/5 stars, would not participate myself.
dreamrealbut the ten commandments predate christianity by AT LEAST 800 years, probably closer to 1500
dreamrealnot sure how they're christian nationalism in any way
jreicherI reckon a lot of it goes back to Hammurabi too
Chronosdreamreal: The Ten Commandments are indeed Christian, just not exclusively Christian.
ChronosAnd I'd be appreciative if you pointed out the non-Christians in Congress pushing for laws to require the Ten Commandments being displayed in public places.
dreamrealChronos: I don't even know of CHRISTIANS in congress pushing for those laws! Those things are state level, not national.
dreamrealAnd there's nothing in the constitution preventing a STATE legislature from doing it.
dreamrealAnd the ten commandments being used by christians doesn't really mean much: Islam accepts them in very nearly the same fashion, since they're generally a set of mores for acceptable human societal behavior
dreamrealA culture that shrugs at theft, at murder, at adultery, at perjury, etc. isn't a culture that is going to be smiled upon by the future. Ask all of the Aztecs' admirers about that. Or the Kenanim; yjere
dreamrealthere's a reason we mention sacrificing children to Moloch as a bit of a negative.
dreamrealNow, I know that there're different cultural drivers at play: maybe you're going "hey, throwing children into a volcano is just the way the kenanim were, it's just their culture; and the Aztecs torturing children so their tears and pain hopefully create better rain the next season, well, you know, it's FINE" but *I* can't do the same
dreamrealThe Spaniards were bastards, as were the English when they halted the sacrifice of widows on their husbands' pyres, but ... give me the bastards in these cases.
dreamreal(Spain vs the Aztecs; the English in India, for specifics.)
dreamrealI don't see Cortez as a hero, and the Brits laid a lot of groundwork for recrimination in India as well, but even so: better than the alternatives
dreamrealIn case you're wondering: no, I'm not a subscriber to the "noble savage" mythos. There's no nobility in savagery; just savagery. There are a few blessed cultures with no inherent violence, I'm sure, but they're hard to find because such leanings tend to convert their people into victims. Force majeure wins when reason fails.
dreamreal(Also worth noting: my heritage is shared. I'm Jewish, and that's my dominant mother culture... but I'm also a Native American. I've actually been invited to join the Metis tribe, but I refused, because I can't assert Metis beliefs honestly... but I could petition the Cherokee just as well. I have the genetic markers for it and everything, although the paperwork was abandoned three generations ago
dreamrealbecause it was a stigma at the time.)
dreamrealSo I'm apparently SUPPOSED TO BE one of those "noble savages" but the truth is, the ancient Israelites were as brutal as they needed to be to survive, as were the Cherokee. The noble savage concept is a myth told by people trying to ignore the truth.
dreamrealAsk the amalekim how kind the Israelites were; oh, you can't. They're all dead. And apparently should be, based on what we can tell from their remains. And ask those whom the cherokee scalped on a regular basis how noble the tribes were. Oh, wait.
bluedreamreal: the noble savages is in itself a racist concept and fetishisation. racist in that that it means it's okay to do great evil if you're only an indian/african (you can't expect to partake of a better moral system), and fetishisation in the sense that everything these guys do is great, mostly a byproduct of the selfhate too people in the west have for their culture
dreamrealFind an incompatibility in what you just said and what *I* said, my friend. :D We only differ in how we express things. I express them well, you're ... you.
blueya, but also you don't espouse a western chauvinism and I do. I honestly believe the west are superior to others, I don't believe in 'every culture is great'
dreamrealOh, but you're wrong: I just don't pretend my chauvinism (it's eastern, not western, we're Jews, damn it!) is some Grand Mission of the Universe.
bluewhy should we? I don't need to assert a superiority that's inherent
dreamrealExactly.
dreamreal(Judaism is eastern, not western: western philosophy sees the world as mechanical. Eastern sees it as organic. That's reductive, but accurate, IMO.)
bluewell yeah, I also don't believe in turning the other cheek
bluethat's some christian nonsense right there
blueyou get hit on one cheek, you hit back so hard the other dude has a painful reminder on HIS cheek for the next time
dreamreal"Vengeance is mine, I will repay," saith the Lord, rather famously in... wait, why does my Tanach have that in Devarim
bluethe real problem with christianity is that it doesn't map the human condition well at all
blueit's got great SEO, but no substance
dreamrealSure, it's definitely aspirational at its heart and mode
bluethe reason you're saying Judaism is eastern is already an abstraction. Judaism is organic because LIFE is organic
blueit's meant to deal with actual reallife concerns... although it does get into real excruciating details sometimes
dreamrealWhich is why I'm an aspirant to eastern philosophy. I think life is NOT mechanical. Physics is, sure, fine, whatever. Math, woo. But life is not mechanical, and thus seeing it as organic is natural and "right."
blueyou know the thing with a piece of ham falling into a pot?
blueit depends on the SIZE!
bluethere's actually a whole chapter about it iirc in the talmud
dreamreal"Whew, good thing that ham was bacon-shaped and, well, bacon-flavored."
bluebut you may actually eat it if it's deemed insignificant enough
dreamrealI personally find that discussion pilpul - it's worth having the discussion, but the decision is concession to real life and is, well, pilpul.
bluewell yeah, I find it mostly illustrative. I don't think it's anyway often a reallife concern, maybe abroad but not in eretz israel
dreamreal(for the non-jews here: pilpul is "foolish talk," straining through bits of trash to find the bit that's least trash but still trash, etc. Sophistry.)
bluesophistry is a good term for it indeed
dreamrealIt's useful sophistry, in that it presents a mechanism for THINKING ABOUT things, but...
bluethere's an old joke in israel that goes something like this. the state passed a law that forbids people from farming pigs on the land. its earth is holy and so on. so now they're growing them on platforms
dreamrealheh. #winning :D ("oh wait, they're still pigs.")
blueoh, I have another one. dreamreal might have heard it, but I'm unsure anyone *else* here did, it's worth telling. a jew is stranded on a desert island for a couple of years. when he's finally rescued, they find he's built two synagogues on the island. astounded, they ask him: "you're just one man, what do you need *two* synagogues for?" he points at the first one, "*this* is the one I pray in", then points at
bluethe second one, "this one, I'll *never* set my foot in"
dreamrealI've heard variants of that, yes, and it's definitely funny. :D There's another one about orthodoxy, but I've always heard it used with christian denominations
dreamrealA man comes upon another man on a bridge, sitting on the side, about to throw himself off... you know, I'm never going to be able to type this out well
nevetI'm reminded of the classic Emo Phillips joke: > Once I saw this guy on a bridge... | Hacker News
bluethat's a good one!
dreamrealdefinitely no analogs THERE in Judaism, whew!
* dreamreal sneers in frum
* blue looks at hasidim
dreamrealI have a distinct disdain for orthodox judaism - I have had great conversations with specific orthodox jews, but most of them weaponize judaism in a way I find repellent. It's like they see how they see the world as "right" instead of "valuable."
blueya, it's nearly a cult
blueit depends though. overseas they tend to be better than in israel. ben shapiro I like, but most orthodox jews in israel can be insufferable
bluethey're also pretty lazy in israel, for some reason I never get
dreamrealI find Shapiro mostly insufferable too, but eh, horses for courses :D The haredim ... ew
bluethe haredim is the main problem. they don't wanna work, nor go to the army. it's almost like they're using the torah as an excuse to do nothing
dreamrealShapiro's a good talker, and he's pretty thorough, but he tends to approach discussion from a position of "I'm right" too. To his credit, he accepts when he's shown otherwise and does so quite well (he'll promote engagements where he *lost* with as much vigor or more than ones in which he *won*) but it's still a wonky approach for me.
dreamrealThe haredim see torah as being more valuable than living the torah, it seems to me.
blueya
dreamreal"I saw a wounded man in desperate need but it was shabbat and he was four steps too far away. I had my phone but the sun was in the wrong position; waiting fifteen minutes was inconvenient, so I left. Surely Hashem would send someone else closer to him, maybe a goy."
blueHA!
bluebtw this would fall under pikuah nefesh
blueso I doubt this really maps
dreamrealONLY if you could accurately measure the "desperate need!" What if he was wounded but not THAT badly...
bluepikuah nefesh generall trumps shabbat
bluegenerally*
bluewell in doubt, for the pikuah nefesh I'd say
dreamrealBut you're not haredi!
blueyes hence cult
dreamrealAnd yes, I'd be horrified at that reasoning, and so would most, I'd hope
blueif they have a different interpretation, they're wrong: pikuah nefesh is a joker card. saving life is more important than anything else, because without life nothing else is possible
dreamrealbut I can TOTALLY see many of the orthodox trying to reason their way out of succor
dreamrealyes: but what if "desperate need" is a broken arm, not actually LIFE-threatening, so pikuach nefesh might not apply, and CHECKING involves breaking shabbat...
bluewell, you don't know until you've checked? and anyway, this would be weird: even if it's just a broken arm, the situation could get worse, and if not dealth with, the person could lose his arm
bluedealt*
dreamrealfor the non-jews: pikuach nefesh is "saving a life" - no jewish law supercedes life, apart from sexual impropriety and a few others
dreamrealgenerally, you break the fucking laws if a life is involved, full stop
blueya
blueit is generally tied to the value of life in judaism. even one life is considered equivalent to the entire world
dreamrealand I think the exceptions make sense: "have an affair, or die!" is... an odd problem to endure
blueheh
dreamrealidolatry is even arguable (the exceptions to pikuach nefesh are: sexual immorality, idolatry, and murder). Avodah zarah (idolatry) is pretty clear, but there ARE exceptions and I bet few rabbis would go too far in attacking idolatry undertaken to preserve one's life: "profane God or we're cutting your throat" is something admirable - Akiva died for this - but I think redemption is as valuable as
dreamrealpreservation.
dreamrealmurder has exceptions, too; capital interdiction is a permittable thing although not a desirable one, as is self-defense, obviously.
dreamrealI'm unaware of any sexual exceptions, but I have no idea why there WOULD be, although I suppose the redemption thing could play here too if you squinted a lot.
Chronosdreamreal: The Ten Commandments aren't just a set of societal moral guidelines. They're clearly religious in nature, and in fact, specific to a particular God (the Abrahamic one).
dreamrealChronos: there are religious aspects to them, yes
ChronosThe Ten Commandments has no place in any public building.
dreamrealDo common mores at all?
ChronosSchools can and do post lots of lists, including moral guidelines. They're fine, as long as they're not religious in nature.
dreamreal(more clearly: does an expression of common mores have a place in public building?)
dreamrealBut religion is inextricable from human history
ChronosIrrelevant.
dreamrealso what you're advocating for is... what, the jacobins' response?
ChronosI'm not sure what that is.
dreamrealWe might think of it as "the terror."
dreamrealActually, no. We might capitalize it. "The Terror."
ChronosIf you have a link that describes it, I'll take a look.
ChronosI have a zero tolerance policy for politicians attempting to mix their pet religions into government.
dreamrealThe French Revolution? Lots of heads a-rolling, let them eat cake, resulting in the heads that MASTERMINDED said revolution rolling and rotting on the same charnel houses where they condemned the royals?
dreamrealYou know, THE TERROR? I feel lost here, like I'm having someone illustrate VERY clearly the whole Santayana thing about those who forget history being doomed to repeat it
dreamrealThe Jacobins SYSTEMATICALLY rebuilt reason and inculcated it into "french life." No religion. At all. "Imagine" made real. And what it resulted in was a years-long shower of blood, blood, blood so much blood that it made the holocaust unimaginable until we were confronted with actual proof of it.
ChronosAre you saying that secularism inevitably leads to disaster, and that religion is a requirement to avoid that outcome?
dreamrealNo. I'm saying that there's momentum, and religion HAS BEEN part of it, and that momentum is part of the mechanism that got us here, and pretending it's not a core aspect of our culture, regardless of our personal belief in the religious conceits, is... misled.
dreamrealI might as well, as an observant Jew, decide to be UTTERLY ignorant of Christian cultural norms, just because *I* am not a Christian, and therefore it's irrelevant, right? Except that's a stupid way to live and I don't like to be stupid.
ChronosI recognize that religion has played a role in many cultures, including in the United States. I'm failing to see how that changes anything, though.
dreamrealOkay, what forms a working society, in your mind?
* Chronos chuckles.
dreamrealSerious question
ChronosAre you saying religion is required to form a working society?
dreamrealNo. I asked what makes a society function. I know what *I* think; I want to know what YOU think.
ChronosIt's probably something I'd want to think about for a while, before I answered. Possibly hours, possibly months.
dreamrealThat's fair.
dreamrealI can tell you what I think, if you like, but that's up to you.
ChronosSure! I like these kinds of discussions. As long as you don't mind them happening in your channel.
dreamrealOkay: *I* think, in short, that a functioning society is one that has *generally* common moral structures, and when those common moral structures are generative rather than destructive.
dreamrealNote the lack of "common religion" or anything like that. A society functions when its members row in the same general direction such that everyone wants the boat to go THATAWAY.
dreamrealA destructive common moral system isn't hard to imagine: we've certainly had a few even in recent memory. The assyrians stick out to ME but they're not unique, unfortunately.
dreamreal(The assyrians were... a lot. They were so bad that when the babylonians and the medes - themselves the "bad guys" of their time - banded together and wiped ninwah so far off the map that it was thought of as an IMAGINARY CITY until it was discovered recently - the babylonians and the medes were the HEROES. We'd probably lump the Nazis and the Assyrians together, although we know a lot less about
dreamrealwhether the Assyrian trains ran on time.)
ChronosSo far, so good. How does this apply to politicians trying to use the government to push their pet religions?
dreamrealThe ten commandments don't PUSH THEIR PET RELIGIONS. The Ten Commandments mention Jesus exactly.. hold on, let me count... errr... carry the... oh wait, they don't. If they're Christians, the decalogue does nothing to promote THEIR RELIGION and everything to push abrahamic mores, which are... hold on, doing more math, divide by... oh yeah, generally the common moral underpinnings of western civ,
dreamrealeven beyond the greek influence.
ChronosDo you deny that the Ten Commandments are referring to a particular God?
dreamrealNot in the slightest.
dreamrealDo you say that one can't follow the general moral concepts in the ten commandments WITHOUT obeisance to that particular God?
ChronosGood. Then we agree they have no place in public places through force of law. :)
dreamrealNo, we don't, because if you say that, you've just eradicated most of our history.
ChronosDisplaying 5-10 (although I'm on the fence about #5) is reasonable, but if your society "needs" those displayed, I think your society might have bigger problems.
dreamrealWhat you've said is, BTW, pretty much a near-exact quote from Robespierre. The architect of the Terror I mentioned.
dreamrealLooking at our society, I'd say we kinda need it, yes, but "thou shalt not murder" needs to have a reason.
ChronosI'm not sure what you mean by "eradicated our history." Nobody is saying schools shouldn't continue to teach history.
dreamrealYou may not agree with the reason being "because God said so," and that's fine - even Judaism is fine with you disagreeing with the sentiment.
dreamrealBut the sentiment is clear: there are good things to do and bad things to do. This sentiment has force. THAT's the decalogue and what it implies. Taking it literally is... interesting, because in human history FEW, relatively speaking, have done that.
ChronosCreating a moral framework without the need for a God or Gods is a very deep philosophical hole. I personally think moral philosophers have succeeded more than once in establishing "murder = bad" without the need to invoke mysticism.
dreamrealSure. You don't NEED mysticism. But have you read those philosophers?
ChronosI have not. My experience has been more practical in nature.
dreamrealClearly, and that's respectable, but with ALL respect, I'd suggest holding off on the sentiment, made publicly. :D
* Chronos chuckles. :)
blueChronos: Sam Harris tried... and.. kinda failed. The best argument I've seen from atheists is: "this has worked well in the past, let's keep it". The problem with that is, it's *not* an argument. *Many* things have worked well for much longer: for example, slavery.
ChronosI should mention that I'm not an atheist. I'm not a theist either.
dreamrealIt doesn't matter. I don't care what you believe in or don't.
blueThere is no argument against slavery there is no religious, or at least dogmatic in nature.
bluethat is not religious*
ChronosI *tend* to lean toward "God must exist," because I can't fathom how the universe can exist without what amounts to magic.
dreamrealChronos: For what it's worth, to be clear: I HAVE read those philosophers. They ask QUITE A BIT of their readers, and ... well, as blue mentioned, they kinda fail. It all comes down to "please don't murder, because I don't really want to be murdered." And that's... not exactly compelling, taken in situ.
Chronosdreamreal: I just thought it might help you understand my position better if you knew that I don't self identify as theist or atheist. More like, permanently unsure. Which, honestly, isn't a great place to be. It's very frustrating.
dreamrealI appreciate that, and it's fine. I do not disapprove.
ChronosI wish I had the confidence of religious people or the confidence of atheists. It would make my inner life so much easier.
blueI'm also generally irreligious, but I reject the label atheist strongly. I subscribe to the Einsteinian notion of religion: the fact the universe's laws are parseable to us can (or rather: should) be considered a miracle.
dreamrealChronos: me too, honestly. I don't trust the utterly confident.
Chronosdreamreal: Perhaps the best argument for things like "murder is bad" is because history has demonstrated that those societies without those rules, well, suck compared to the alternative.
dreamrealChronos: see? You're doing what blue does to me all the time! He's like "dreamreal, you're wrong! SO WRONG! Now let me take two hours to end up where you started in this conversation, almost like you were right the whole damn time and I'm not an idiot."
blueThis *is* a leap of faith that people who are strongly science-oriented often forget: there is no particular *reason* we have the ability to understand and glimpse into (parts of) the universe.
dreamrealHobbes.
Chronos(I tend to think strong atheism is at least as foolish as blind faith in a religion.)
dreamrealChronos: yep.
Chronosdreamreal: Think of it as you doing a public service. ;)
Chronosblue: I agree.
dreamrealIt's exhausting, though.
dreamrealYou morons have NO IDEA how tiring it is to be so much more ingelitent than you is.
bluedreamreal: shouldn't you be celebrating it? You get people to steelman your nonsensical notions!
Chronoslol! :)
ChronosUnfortunately, most of the evil I've personally experienced, or saw friends/relatives experience, has come at the hands of the religious.
dreamrealblue: the problem is that I know the conclusion ahead of time and I have to step through it over and over again while people realize that I actually have a reason for the positions I hold. And I HAVE to walk through it, because I'm not perfect and sometimes I learn, too, and revise my own positions, so I can't just do like, uh, what SOME PEOPLE do and say "look, I'm right, you're wrong, shut up."
dreamrealChronos: as Jews, blue and I can easily concur :D
blueYa, though evil is in the nature of humans, not necessarily in the making of religions.
dreamrealreligion is just a convenient hammer. Sometimes it's a rudder, but less often than it is blamed for.
blueReligions have neither been the prerequisite for evil nor a hindrance of it.
Chronosdreamreal: Indeed. One of the reasons I'm against politicians trying to introduce religion into government through force of law is because I recognize groups like Jews are at nontrivial risk if they succeed.
ChronosIf you think the religious right won't come for you eventually, I think you're mistaken.
dreamrealSee, my problem is with THE POLITICIANS and not THE RELIGION.
dreamrealI think everyone is going to come for me eventually. Doesn't matter which direction on the compass they come from. I know a good bit of my own history.
ChronosSame here, but to a much lesser degree.
dreamrealI fear the religious right less than I fear the irreligious left, honestly: postmodernism is more corrosive that utter belief.
ChronosIf it comes to it, I can fake being religious (converted). Jews would have a much, *much* more difficult time avoiding being discriminated against.
Chronosdreamreal: I fear them both pretty equally, which is why I self identify as a moderate.
dreamrealNobody knows what a jew is, apart from being a potential victim.
dreamrealI fear those who would destroy meaning a LOT more than those with whom I disagree.
ChronosDestroy meaning?
dreamrealI can argue with those with whom I disagree; thsoe who can't accept what existence is, or what words mean... how do you talk to them at all?
dreamrealwhen someone says "this is a bit of knowledge" and it's wrong, I can say "it is wrong, here is truth, here is why." And maybe they'll be convinced, maybe not, but we're speaking together.
dreamrealWhen someone says "nothing is knowable, even that statement is unknowable"... how do you REACH THEM?
Chronosdreamreal: In my experience, it's best not to talk to them at all. I've been universally unsuccessful trying to talk extreme-right people into sense. I've also been universally unsuccessful trying to talk extreme-left people into sense.
Chronosdreamreal: Oh, yeah, that's a dumb stance for them to take. You have to build from somewhere reasonable, or you can't build at all.
dreamrealSure. yet we live in the same world. I am an actual leftist, a real one. I can't say "oh, you're one of THOSE loons, take your place with the potted plants in my sensorium."
ChronosI'm a loon, but I think recognizing that I'm a loon is advantageous. ;)
dreamrealI agree, you're a loon.
Chronoshahahaha
Chronosyep. That's what everyone tells me...
dreamrealNow you can say that *I* agree with you, so it's obviously correct because I WILL take the time to walk through the reasoning until everyone who tells me I'm utterly incorrect ends up trying to convince me of the position I had when the discussion STARTED.
ChronosSpeaking of Jews (if that's okay), my best friend for the last 30 years is a Jew. Even after decades of talking to him, I can't wrap my head around why so many people seem to hate Jews.
Chronosdreamreal: Alas — I still take an uncompromising stance against politicians introducing religion into public spaces through rule of law.
dreamrealChronos: *shrug* not my monkey. Do as you will such that it works for you. My main opposition to that is the "uncompromising" aspect: I do not trust true believers, even when they believe what I do.
Chronosdreamreal: Well, just be careful about who you support — if they continue their current trajectory, they can — and will — come for you eventually.
dreamrealagain, jewish: 3500 years and more of awareness.
* Chronos nods.
ChronosI apologize. I shouldn't be telling you, of all people, this, as if it's some great insight.
dreamrealIt's literally no problem. Better than not!
ChronosIt's insulting to you and I need to talk more carefully.
ChronosOK, thanks. :)
dreamrealIt's like what I was saying about christians trying to convert me - I'd rather they TRIED. It means they care.
Chronos(Reading that Israel/Gaza article now)
dreamrealthat guy is VERY verbose
dreamrealnot much of a surprise that I read him, eh
dreamreal"Give me words, please, more more precious words, words!!!!!"
ChronosInteresting article.
dreamrealand for the record: no, you don't need to talk to ME more carefully. I'd say the opposite. Take the gloves off, you freaking rat bastard.
ChronosThere *is* another approach, though, one that I personally used: I tried to raise my daughter to be a better person than I am. Less prejudice.
dreamrealI did the same for my sons.
ChronosBecause I *am* prejudiced.
dreamrealSure. As am I. In my case, of course, my prejudice is deserved... (haha)
dreamrealBut the desire to make the next generation better IS the point. We do what we can. If we do that, we've succeeded.
ChronosI haven't said it to many people, but I think quite a few immigrants are an objective harm to American society, and if I were in charge, I'd seriously consider not allowing immigration from some countries with cultures so deeply incompatible.
dreamrealContinual improvement is what we SHOULD be aiming for, not "perfection."
Chronosyep.
dreamrealAnd the thing about what you JUST SAID is why I think the decalogue is okay to publish everywhere: not as religious edict, but "here are the ground rules, and if you can't follow these basic things, maybe you DO NOT BELONG."
ChronosMy Jewish friend never ceases to miss an opportunity for telling me I'm a racist and a monster for thinking we should perhaps put the brakes on immigration from some places.
dreamrealJews are the worst. :D
Chronosdreamreal: 5-10 (or 6-10) and you have my agreement. 1-4 are a hard no.
ChronosHe's pretty liberal... heh.
blueChronos: your Jewish friend is what we generally call a "bad Jew"
dreamrealI'm very liberal, personally. But the thing is: 1-4 ... don't ... I mean, I get the response to them, but I think that's throwing the baby out with the bathwater. It's just framing.
ChronosThere's no end of people that want to come to the United States; I don't personally think it's evil to prefer those coming from more compatible cultures.
Chronosblue: hahahaha he would probably agree
Chronosdreamreal: I'm flummoxed why politicians can't come to some compromise on such a thing.
dreamrealI don't think it's evil to prefer those compatible immigrants at all. And from INCOMPATIBLE cultures? Bring 'em on! ... as long as you can find a way to become compatible. Come here and shriek "death to america?" You have that right... and you can fuck right on off, too.
dreamrealGo back to the place you ran from.
blueChronos: let's start from the basics. There's no right to immigrate. All immigrants, regardless of status, are fully at the behest of their gracious hosts. Their status can (and should be) forfeit at any time, if they break the rules. For the illegal ones, that's a given since they've already broken the rules by entering illegally; for the legal ones, that should apply too if they commit a crime or go against
bluethe conditions of their stay. Sounds reasonable?
Chronosblue: 100% reasonable.
blueFrom these basics, all immigration policy should flow. Any other position should be considered unreasonable, because it would suggest that immigration is a *right* that people possess.
* dreamreal settles back to watch this absurdity play out.
ChronosFor example, as I think I've mentioned earlier in this channel, I'm both in favor of most of the current deportations, *and* aghast at the abominable behavior of ICE officers, the DHS, and the current administration, in terms of how it's being handled.
ChronosStupidity all around. And since I lack the purity either side demands, they both hate me. yippee.
blueChronos: So what I've described to you right now, is essentially the immigration policy of Australia.
dreamrealPurity sucks as a measure of people.
Chronosblue: Unfortunately, here in Minnesota, there are a disturbing number of people that think borders should be open, and that any borders at all are racist.
blueChronos: Yes, and it's good to understand that those people are *crazy*. They need to be put in insane asylums, because they have completely lost hold of reality.
dreamrealChronos: I think every immigrant should be allowed to stay, illegal or not, as long as they can find a citizen willing to shoulder their legal and financial burdens :D
dreamrealKaren wants Ahmed to be able to stay in America despite being a rapist in whatever shithole he came from? No worries, it's Karen's roof, and Karen's tax burden, and Karen goes to jail with him if he rapes again... even if it's her
dreamrealI bet that'd be an experiment that lasted DAYS
bluedreamreal: that's also, bar the illegals, the immigration policy of Australia: you can invite people (though mostly family -- but employers can invite employees), as long as they shoulder the financial burden incurred.
nevetdreamreal: that's also, bar the illegals, the immigration policy of Australia: you can invite people (though mostly family now has karma of -1.
blueI wouldn't necessarily have a problem extending that to illegals, because definitionally they would become 'legal' at that point -- though I suspect you wouldn't find nearly as many people willing to sponsor, as are vocal for illegal immiration.
nevetI wouldn't necessarily have a problem extending that to illegals, because definitionally they would become 'legal' at that point now has karma of -1.
dreamrealWell, the nice thing about that is if you're a nice enough person to convince someone to ACTUALLY sponsor you, that's probably okay. If you're such an awful person that you CAN'T, well, why would we want you around anyway? So maybe try being a nice person.
bluedreamreal: because those leftists are theoretically nice; as long as they don't need to pay a personal price, they will chant those stupidities.
dreamrealOf course, we just outlined a policy that would get Tucker Carlson uncitizened. What a loss that would be.
dreamrealblue: well, that's why I say let them get skin in the game themselves: Ahmed Therapist (get it? the... rapist) gets to stay.. under Karen's roof. With Karen. And her daughter.
blueKaren's not gonna do that. She doesn't really care about Ahmed. She cares about feeling well in her own body whilst sipping her almond matcha latte at Starbucks.
dreamrealRight, which is why sleeping under the same roof with ol' Ahmed fixes the situation.
dreamrealVirtue without cost isn't virtue.
bluedreamreal: Would you be surprised to hear that in Germany, the areas with the fewest immigration asylums are where the vote is highest for Greens and the Social-Democratic party?
dreamrealI would, actually, because I don't know the social structures in place. I don't know who the Greens are or what their policies are, etc., so I have no way to form those associations.
blueBunch of NIMBYs.
blueThose two parties are more or less the equivalent of the Dems in the US.
dreamrealheh
blueIt's hard to compare because European politics is different, but as a general abstraction, it holds.
* Chronos mumbles something about maybe Native Americans should be the ones making immigration decisions
dreamrealSo I get to tell you guys what to do!
dreamrealJoseph Littlefeatherstein, that's me. Ecept the feather ain't so little, if you know what I mean.
blueChronos: using a first-dibs framework to determine ownership can have unexpected consequences, though. If you say the natives should call the shots, does it mean the entirety of the land of Israel belongs to Jews?
* dreamreal watches Jordan have a cow.
blueIt's after all, undisputed historically that Jews have owned most of the land, including parts eastern of the Jordan river and into Syria.
blueMike Huckabee recently made that point, to the chagrin of many Arab nations, who can't face the truth.
Chronosblue: Point taken, heh
* Chronos wonders if, after WW2, East Germany should have been given to the Jews.
dreamrealno
Chronosdreamreal: Why not?
dreamrealWhy? is a better question
bluetypical jew, answers with a question
ChronosAs part of reparations.
dreamrealI mean, what would it have helped? Germany was still WW2-era germany. You'd basically be handing my people their literal graveyard at that point.
dreamrealAnd in a place where they'd just been told VERY bluntly they didn't belong, among people who'd done the "you don't belong her"-ing
dreamrealHerzl actually suggested madagascar as a land for jews but no, no, someone else might want that, so no
ChronosNot a suggestion, just a shower thought flash :)
blueUganda was also on the table.
dreamrealsure, it's just not been something that's been discussed a lot
blueArgentina, I think too?
dreamrealherzl had no specific longing for israel proper, he was willing to accept anywhere
blueTurns out nobody really wants les JOOS!
dreamrealthe rest of the world: "not there, wherever it is"
Chronosdreamreal: So, why Kotlin for nevet?
dreamrealChronos: kotlin's very expressive to write
dreamrealjava would have been fine but I can write kotlin faster and it IS more expressive
dreamrealplus, I LIKE try and if being expressions and not statements
dreamrealI'm almost as unreasoned as blue in that :D
blueyeah, you only need to write like 100 lines to expess a simple concept.
Chronosdreamreal: Can you show an example or two of its extra expressiveness?
ChronosIn my experience, a lot of developers, when lauding expressiveness, is actually lauding terseness, which is often harder to read, maintain, debug, and reasonable about.
Chronoss/is/are/
bluetrue, Chronos
Chronoss/reasonable/reason/
bluethere's also not much wrong anymore with modern Java; dreamreal is just a hipster!
Chronosdreamreal: Blech.
ChronosWhat type is foo?! I hate it. ;)
dreamrealor: foo?.let { baz() } // run if foo is not null
Chronos(Type inference often drives me mad.)
dreamrealChronos: var foo:FooType is just as valid :D
ChronosI like type inference if the type is obvious from some other part of the expression.
ChronosBut I really hate "var foo = bar()".
Chronos(Personal preference.)
Chronostry being an expression looks kind of cool though.
ChronosReminds me of ?:
blueWhen I see things like `@Column(nullable = false) val deleted: Boolean = false,`, I think this SO unnecessarily verbose. ideal: `deleted: p.boolean.default(false)` (non-nullable should be the default, anyway)
dreamrealChronos: well, in this case, I DID just type it on the fly :D
dreamrealfoo and bar and baz are metasyntax, they're intentionally unclear about meaning
bluethat's what I mean with 100 lines to express a simple concept. it's all theatrics. that's also a java criticism, btw
dreamrealthe main thing about kotlin I DON'T like is that it does NOT have ternaries
dreamrealblue: that annotation is don't different THINGS
dreamrealdoing
bluemy eyes need to scan like HALF the line before I even GET to the name of the column, which is the most important thing here and the basics
bluethat's totally broken
dreamreal@column val deleted:boolean // same thing
bluethat's still dumb
dreamreal"this is a column in the database" and "cannot be nullable"
dreamrealwell, you're in luck, because you ACTUALLY don't need "@Column"
bluethe example I gave you is the most express one
blueexpessive*
dreamrealSure. You wanna see the real entity?
bluedoing an entire dance here juts because ONE thing isn't in the db is dumb
dreamreal@Entity class DatabaseThing { @Id UUID id; boolean deleted }
Chronosdreamreal: Go doesn't have ternaries either.
blueunfortunately he doesn't have access to it, dreamreal
blueso I quoted directly
dreamrealsure. So what about that? Most of the signal in entities is for *consistency*
dreamrealnot *expressiveness*
blueyou're repeating yourself across TEN lines because you have ONE exception. that's TERRIBLE ergonomics
dreamrealWell, strictly speaking, that's habit, not mandate
dreamrealand also represents cross-domain concerns
dreamrealthe database not allowing nullables isn't the same as the LANGUAGE not allowing nullables
blueshrug, pilpul
dreamrealif anyone edits THE DATABASE they're not allowed to create bad data
dreamrealno, actual architecture
dreamrealdatabase != consumers
dreamrealthose lines tell the language things about the database
dreamrealthey are not the same
blueexceptions, as in nullables, should not be the default
* dreamreal sighs
blueregardless if you lay it on the db or app level, a distinction without merit
dreamrealokay, noted, everything sucks
dreamrealmove along, get stuff done
blueI find such things often extremely theoretically: if someone edits the database. if you have an app, you should *not* be editing the db directly, but using migrations. if you do, it's your own fault if bad things happen
bluetheoretical*
dreamrealI understand that. I find that awfully cute, personally, but I get it.
dreamrealChronos: have you tried hangman? :D Or looked at the star trader stuff
blueYAGNI. someone could also be dropping tables, so what? would kill the app as well. you've baked a category error into your code, congrats
dreamrealI'm sure once I hit year three in my development career, I'll be as wise as you :D
bluemore like thirty!
dreamrealhangman
nevetHangman: _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ (6/6 lives) -- Use 'hangman <letter>' to guess, 'hangman solve <word>' to solve.
dreamrealeveryone in-channel can play, BTW, it's tied to the context of the game
dreamrealif you want to play solo, DM the bot :D
dreamrealhangman a
nevetHangman: _ _ _ _ _ a _ _ (6/6 lives, guessed: a) -- 'a' is in the word!
bluebetter, because I can extract common patterns into variables; like a boolean default false, or the date thing
dreamrealThey're doing different things and in different ways
bluemy code would be doing exactly the same thing
dreamreal... in different ways. How does it reflect in the schema?
bluejust with less theatrics and repetition, and much more expressiveness: reads naturally from left to right
* dreamreal shrugs. Sure. So what?
blueyou could say so what about anything!
dreamrealRight?
dreamrealWhich is why I don't say it!
dreamrealIt's meaningless. You like yours. I have questions about scope, but so what?
bluewhat questions about scope
dreamrealI mean, I asked my MAIN question
dreamrealyou have an object with a field: id. If you change the source file, who owns the data?
bluewhat's your MAIN question? this code would result in the SAME schema as your code
dreamrealHow are those rules expressed in the database? Why is THIS file the owner of that schema?
dreamrealin my code, MOST of the entity is actually unnecessary, it's habit and hints for othere
dreamrealothers
bluethis code maps DIRECTLY to a DB table. if I change it, I'd run `primate db migrate` and I'm done
blueif I don't run, the incongruency will be detected and I will be informed I need to run a migration or change the code
dreamrealright. So this code is the system of record for that table. My code is not. C'est la vie. I *like* it that way - I don't want my app writing a schema.
dreamrealgotta run for a bit
blueI guess you like it that way, that's why you've written it. when but when I read @Entity and @Table, I will link this in my mind to the DB table, so it'll be effectively the same. this is a model of a table, as is my code
blues/I guess/I get/
bluebbiab
dreamrealhangman r
nevetHangman: _ _ _ _ _ a _ _ (5/6 lives, guessed: a, r) -- No 'r'. 5 lives left.
dreamrealhangman s
nevetHangman: _ _ _ _ _ a _ _ (4/6 lives, guessed: a, r, s) -- No 's'. 4 lives left.
dreamrealhangman t
nevetHangman: _ _ _ _ _ a _ _ (3/6 lives, guessed: a, r, s, t) -- No 't'. 3 lives left.
dreamrealhangman l
nevetHangman: _ _ l l _ a _ _ (3/6 lives, guessed: a, l, r, s, t) -- 'l' is in the word!
dreamrealhangman n
nevetHangman: _ _ l l _ a _ _ (2/6 lives, guessed: a, l, n, r, s, t) -- No 'n'. 2 lives left.
dreamrealhangman e
nevetHangman: _ _ l l _ a _ _ (1/6 lives, guessed: a, e, l, n, r, s, t) -- No 'e'. 1 lives left.
dreamrealuh oh
dreamrealhangman h
nevetNo lives left! The word was 'pullback'. Use 'hangman' to start over.
bluehangman
nevetHangman: _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ (6/6 lives) -- Use 'hangman <letter>' to guess, 'hangman solve <word>' to solve.
nevetHangman: _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ (4/6 lives, guessed: e, i) -- No 'i'. 4 lives left.
bluehangman a
nevetHangman: _ _ _ _ a _ _ _ (4/6 lives, guessed: a, e, i) -- 'a' is in the word!
bluehangman o
nevetHangman: _ o _ _ a _ _ _ (4/6 lives, guessed: a, e, i, o) -- 'o' is in the word!
bluehangman u
nevetHangman: _ o _ _ a _ _ _ (3/6 lives, guessed: a, e, i, o, u) -- No 'u'. 3 lives left.
bluehangman c
nevetHangman: _ o _ _ a _ c _ (3/6 lives, guessed: a, c, e, i, o, u) -- 'c' is in the word!
bluehangman k
nevetHangman: _ o _ _ a _ c _ (2/6 lives, guessed: a, c, e, i, k, o, u) -- No 'k'. 2 lives left.
bluehangman s
nevetHangman: _ o _ _ a _ c _ (1/6 lives, guessed: a, c, e, i, k, o, s, u) -- No 's'. 1 lives left.
dreamrealI'm betting a t
bluehangman t
nevetHangman: _ o t _ a t c _ (1/6 lives, guessed: a, c, e, i, k, o, s, t, u) -- 't' is in the word!
dreamrealI bet potlatch
dreamreal(I have not looked)
bluehangman p
nevetHangman: p o t _ a t c _ (1/6 lives, guessed: a, c, e, i, k, o, p, s, t, u) -- 'p' is in the word!
bluehangman l
nevetHangman: p o t l a t c _ (1/6 lives, guessed: a, c, e, i, k, l, o, p, s, t, u) -- 'l' is in the word!
bluehangman h
nevetYou got it! The word was 'potlatch'. Use 'hangman' to play again.
dreamrealhaha
bluewth is potlatch
dreamrealgift-giving feast apparently
dreamrealdefine potlatch
nevetdefine potlatch: potlatch (noun): A ceremony amongst certain indigenous peoples of the Pacific Northwest in which gifts are bestowed upon guests and personal property is destroyed in a show of generosity and wealth.
bluehangman
nevetHangman: _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ (6/6 lives) -- Use 'hangman <letter>' to guess, 'hangman solve <word>' to solve.
bluehangman e
nevetHangman: _ _ _ _ _ _ _ e (6/6 lives, guessed: e) -- 'e' is in the word!
bluehangman t
nevetHangman: _ _ _ _ _ _ _ e (5/6 lives, guessed: e, t) -- No 't'. 5 lives left.
bluehangman a
nevetHangman: _ _ a _ _ a _ e (5/6 lives, guessed: a, e, t) -- 'a' is in the word!
bluehangman o
nevetHangman: _ _ a _ _ a _ e (4/6 lives, guessed: a, e, o, t) -- No 'o'. 4 lives left.
bluehangman i
nevetHangman: _ _ a _ _ a _ e (3/6 lives, guessed: a, e, i, o, t) -- No 'i'. 3 lives left.
dreamrealOh, use an alef, let's see what it does
bluehangman n
nevetHangman: _ _ a _ _ a _ e (2/6 lives, guessed: a, e, i, n, o, t) -- No 'n'. 2 lives left.
bluehangman א
nevetHangman: _ _ a _ _ a _ e (1/6 lives, guessed: a, e, i, n, o, t, א) -- No 'א'. 1 lives left.
blueyou bastard
dreamrealNICE, bug!
blueyou just cost me a life
dreamrealwell, I could give you what the actual word is
dreamrealbut now I have a bug to fix, which is good
bluehangman r
nevetNo lives left! The word was 'clambake'. Use 'hangman' to start over.
blueJESUS
dreamrealdefine clambake
nevetdefine clambake: clambake (noun): An informal beach party in which food, usually seafood, is cooked in a pit dug in the sand, filled with hot coals.
dreamrealhahaha
blueit's all words I DO NOT KNOW
dreamrealman, nevet's INTO food ceremonies today
dreamrealthe words are picked at random from I think 400
dreamrealI want to have it choose from aspell-dict, etc
bluejust have it choose from AI
bluebbiab
dreamrealnah, expensive
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bluedreamreal: can nevet map discord reactions to irc messages?
dreamrealUnfortunately, no
bluewhy not
dreamrealdiscord doesn't differentiate actions
dreamreala discord action is just a message in italics
dreamrealI checked
blueso I just liked something phaleth said on the primate irc channel, on discord
dreamrealyes
dreamrealoh, THOSE
dreamrealthose are different
blueshouldn't it show <discord:blue> :thumbsup: or something?
dreamrealum
dreamrealOkay, so that's ACTUALLY doable, but I don't know how it would map, because you can respond to messages long past their posting date
bluethat's ok: you can also remove reactions, which isn't mappable. in ircv3 at least could attach it to a message: but I think just writing a message for now should be ok, for most cases
blueso to be candid here, I usually form my thoughts in a loose manner and then have chatgpt box it into shape, spares me a lot of time whilst writing issues
dreamreali have no issue with that process AT ALL
dreamrealand that seems clear enough, I need to do some research to see what some of the gaps are
dreamrealOkay, will start on it, shouldn't be a leap, but we may have to re-sign on to discord to reset perms, will have to see
blue`The bridge is for convenience, not fidelity` is a good faith compromise
dreamreal*nod*
dreamrealI'm not trying to do a perfect 1:1 mapping, esp between protocols that don't provide equivalent features: I DO think it's a good idea to do what makes sense
blueit should be a non-trivial effort, but not a maximalistic one
bluethe nature of the platforms' difference make a maximalistic approach essentially a blackhole
dreamrealI think it's pretty trivial, actually
bluemakes*
blueya, if it's trivial to you, all the better
dreamrealokay, just checked: this is going to be a lot easier than I thought
dreamrealworking on it (was concerned about access to the reactions, which I was worried would be a re-invite - instead, it's JUST another message type/translation into messages.)
bluethat's great
bluealways better when the path is clear
dreamrealThe hard part's going to be the throttling, because we HAVE throttling but it's at a different layer, this is internal to the bridge
dreamrealbut I don't think "hard part" is actually "hard to write," it's just "let me make sure we don't spam 40 "* :discord:foobar: :heart:" style messages in a row
bluekeep a counter; consider it reset by a 'normal' message, and set it at MAX=N with N of your choosing (5?)
dreamrealyeah, something like that
dreamrealjust a stepped counter
bluethe logic being that a message is a sort of cutoff; reaction is 'less' interesting and less likely, now that the old message has swung past
dreamrealthe messages are not actually queued at any point in the system, so it just needs to collect them with an expiry
dreamrealoooo that's a good idea. Hmm. It's actually more complicated than my idea, though
bluethis more or less corresponds to discord dynamics
bluein my anecdotal experience, reactions typically fall when a message isn't the latest anymore
dreamrealIt's actually an update to a message, can happen any time
dreamrealthe discord API is a POS :D
blueactually, that's a chance, no? set a cutoff *time*; reactions after a few minutes can be discord, and ALWAYS when a new message already arrived
blues/discord/discarded/
blueor if you want to be lenient, always allow for reactions, until a new message has arrived; then stop
bluethat would make a lot of sense, no?
blueit would certainly prevent random thumbsup appearing out of nowhere
bluethumbsups*
dreamrealWell, the problem is that it makes the bridge slightly stateful. But that might be okay, working on it.
bluethe only state you need thought is O(1). just keep the time of the last message, and match that
bluethough*
blueif the reacted message is not the last message (as matched by time), ignore the reaction. reactions in themselves don't count.
dreamrealright, THAT's statefulness.
blueand feel free to keep this info in memory, you don't even need to persist. it's not that important
blueyes but it's a very, very cheap form of statefulness
blueit's just a few bytes in memory, per bridge
blueyou're gonna need millions of bridge for this become noticeable on any scale
bluebridges*
blueany which point... you have different concerns
dreamrealI'm not worried about MEMORY, I'm worried about state
dreamrealDiscord has a message state concept that may not map cleanly to the bridge for slack
blueif you really are, then read the last message in the channel on discord, and use that to compare?
dreamrealwow, that's even worse for statefulness :D
dreamrealI'm working on it, I think I have a model to use
bluebut anyway you see it, throttling IMPLIES state
dreamrealright, it's a matter of what kind of state and where and how it's managed
blueyou can't do throttling without keeping some information about the past aside
dreamrealI know how computers work, my friend :D
blueI frankly don't think this is any state worth saving in a db, if that was your dear
bluefear*
dreamrealit never was, although the DB has a lot of that information
dreamrealbut I'm trying to keep the adapters as stateless as possible
blueat work, we do oauth. and we keep the authcode (those five minutes code you exactly for a token) in a map in-memory
dreamrealso I'm going to, well, keep it as stateless as possible
bluetechnically if the server restarted at some point, we'd lose that info: but it's such a stupidly unimportant info that it doesn't matter
blues/exactly/exchange/
jreicherI think my favourite joke is this one. A congregation are trying to decide, once and for all, whether they should stand or sit for the shema. Failing to come to a conclusion they decide to consult their retired rabbi to find out what the tradition is. "Rabbi, is it the tradition to stand for the shema?". "Hmm. No, that's not the tradition". "Rabbi, is it the tradition then to sit for the shema?". "Oh. Hmm. No, that's not the
jreichertradition". "But then if we don't know, half the people stand, half the people sit, and everyone argues about it!". "Yes! THAT'S the tradition!"
dreamrealbwahahaha I've never heard that one!
dreamrealMy favorite jewish joke: a man goes to an orthodox rabbi, and says, "Rabbi, i wish to affix a mezuzah to my lamborghini, is it acceptable?" And the rabbi goes "hmm, hmm, what's a lamborghini?" and the man explains that it's a very fancy car, and the rabbi grabs his cane and rage and beats the man until he leaves.
dreamrealthe man then goes to a conservative rabbi, and says, "Rabbi, i wish to affix a mezuzah to my lamborghini, is it acceptable?" And the rabbi goes "hmm, interesting, what's a lamborghini?" and the man explains again that it's a very fancy car, and the rabbi grabs his an umbrella and shouts at the man until he leaves.
bluejreicher: hahaha, that's a GREAT one
dreamrealThe man finally goes to a reform rabbi, and says "rabbi, rabbi, I wish to affix a mezuzah to my lamborghini, is it acceptable?" and the rabbi looks at him, confused, and says... "what's a mezuzah?"
jreicherdreamreal: Oh no! I thought this was going to be some kind of shammai/hillel reference, but instead it goes for the truth!
dreamrealhahaha
blueHAHAHAHA dreamreal
dreamrealcracks me up EVERY TIME
bluethis bites every time!
bluejreicher: are you also a Jew? this channel is NEVER going to work!
dreamrealcue all the reform jews going "... we don't get it"
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jreicherGive me a few minutes to come up with a 19th
dreamrealjreicher: so as you can see, blue and I argue halakha and similar all the time, chime in if you like
blueit's YOUR fault for creating a BOT whose essence is probably the most JEWISH thing I've seen
blueI wanna do EVERYTHING at once but ALSO be everything at once!
dreamrealjreicher: blue has me beat like a drum in some areas but I beat him like a redheaded stepchild in others
dreamrealhe wins at all the insignificant bits
blueI'm kidding though: nevet is great and is actually supremely helpful
blueI've always wanted a discord-irc bridge
jreicherMy text knowledge is actually quite awful, so I expect I'll be learning things from you guys. Most of what I know I learned listening to sermons.
dreamrealthat's how most of us learn
jreicherYeah. I'm actually quite grateful for the parshah cycle in a way that I never thought I would be when I was younger. I actually know some torah as a result.
dreamrealjreicher: you ever read r/judaism on reddit?
jreicherNo, but that's because I don't do reddit it at all. I really struggle reading everything I want to read and I don't yet have a reason to prioritise reddit above other things. I was dipping in when I set up an RSS feed though. Maybe I should give that another go.
dreamrealI will warn you: it's... rough
jreicherBut you yourself read it?
jreicherMaybe even contribute?
dreamrealyes, but I am made of iron and have the constitution of ... something really strong
dreamrealYou get the mystical barely-as-a-jew people on there, the people for whom kabbalah and torah are the same things... and then you get the very very frum, and then you get the ex-yeshivists, all arguing back and forth
bluedreamreal: I think it's time we told jreicher about kn
bluebecause that person was REAL
dreamrealohlord
bluehighly messed up, but real
dreamrealyeah, he'd fit right in with the kabbalah=torah? group
blueyup
blueso this guy, kn, shows up in a channel of mine where dreamreal is also hanging around
jreicherPretty much what I would expect. I think more than anything I would be impatient rather than hurt in a forum that was aggressive and/or dogmatic. Some of the most valuable ideas in a discussion are the half-formed ones that can be easily shouted down in their early form but can turn into strong ideas given some gentle attention.
dreamrealI struggle on r/judaism because I see talmud as being essentially organic
dreamrealand there are LOTS of frum people on there who see torah as absolute and I just don't get it
dreamrealso they're like "yes, yes, cut off your third finger if this happens, I WOULD NEVER TOLERATE THEE"
jreicherOf course it's bloody organic. Used to oral. And a key part of our tradition is constant reinterpretation, even if we agree not to change the text.
blueand he starts having the craziest ideas. I don't remember all of it... but once he discovers we are both jews, he starts going on about how he wants us to teach him kabbalah magic, so that his wife (which he didn't have, at that point, so purely theoretical) wouldn't go with other men
jreicher...used to be oral...
dreamrealyeah, kn was NUTS
dreamrealwanted magic spells
dreamrealwas watching this rabbi on youtube who was an absolute crackpot
blueyeah. this guy like, of ALL the rabbis in the world, found out the WORST one
blueand decided he's gonna listen to him
dreamrealand he was an antisemite to boot! Wanted to covert because of access to the spells, you know
dreamrealwas utterly mystifying
jreicherHe's probably a freemason now.
bluehe was convinced we're very rich, too, and have spells of gold, which is also antisemitic
dreamrealjreicher: it wouldn't surprise me at all if he'd applied
bluefrankly: I WISH I had spells of gold
dreamrealbut even the freemasons would filter him out, I think
dreamrealhe was pretty unstable
bluethat would make life so much easier
dreamrealjreicher: It's amazing how crazy people can be sometimes
jreicherI feel like I know why, but I know I'm falling into pop psychology in my thinking. It has to do with maladaptive strategies and all that. Often I look at these people and just see the pain they're in, and the inappropriate ways they are seeking comfort.
dreamrealjreicher: ++
nevetjreicher now has karma of 2.
bluethere is this typical class of, I call them soft antisemites, who are just 'interested' in Judaism, but the questions they are SO indicative, and some of pretend to make any effort to really hide but it always, without exception, comes out in the end
dreamrealIt's hard not to respond: you want to correct, but they don't want or need correction, they need HEALING
bluethe questions they have*
dreamrealand they ask for healing from communities that aren't actually DESIGNED for healing: "oh man I'm in such pain, I'll ask facebook"
dreamrealuh.. will you?
bluethe kn guy was one of them: "teach me spells"... uh, no. I don't know any spells. I don't know kabbalah and wouldn't dabble in it like a fool without knowing the basics of the religion
dreamreali know kaballah, but kn took my advice about it very poorly
dreamrealbecause the right advice was "no."
bluethe right advice was, stop the cocaine (to which he admitted being addicted in the past, I think 'in the past' could well be dropped)
dreamrealkaballah is to be avoided by most on general principle alone: barring that, it requires a very secure life and surroundings, and a very strong grounding in what traditional judaism entails, and he had NONE of it.
dreamrealit's not "advanced judaism," it's different judaism, and a way of seeing judaism differently; it's not BETTER.
bluebut also he had a very transactional idea of judaism: he wanted to become a jew to get all the spells, the women (what women?) and the gold
jreicherThe drug addicts I've known can't really stop until they have something else (healthy) to do.
dreamrealkn's approach to judaism was NOT healthy.
jreicherblue: oh, that's ridiculous.
dreamrealblue's right, he was VERY transactional about it - and when we couldn't or wouldn't help him do whatever transaction he wanted like little jewish vending machiines, he'd get angry at us and start ranting
jreicherAnd also sounds like a lack of self-worth that he was attempting to address with a really infantile concept of success.
dreamrealjreicher: so... question: how do you find #java?
dreamreallike, grade it. I'm interested.
dreamrealnot *for java* but as a culture/community.
dreamrealjreicher: oh, he was very bad off, needed an actual in-person psychologist and was trying to replace one with ... a sort of dime-store imported judaism, like hanging out with 'real jews' online would make up for a lack
dreamrealnote: he was not jewish in the slightest, in any way
dreamrealall of his judaism was imported via youtube
jreicherRe #java, for me, personally, it's useful, but honestly I have nothing to compare it to. Most programmers I know aren't interested in "right" ways of doing things or in trying to understand why a language (library, framework, ...) might be the way it is.
bluein the end it got really bad. he started sending me pm calling me a bad jew for not practising whatever his deranged idea of what I should be doing
bluelike actively messaging me on shabbat and telling me I'm gonna burn in hell for typing back
bluetotally crazy
bluepms*
dreamrealhey he was trying to out-frum everyone
dreamrealI wanted to ask how long his peyos were
dreamreal(he did not know what they were)
dreamrealalso; I do not have them. :D
blueya
blue(it was no use telling him we don't have a concept of hell really, and he's applying christian thought)
blueI think he was really beyond saving
bluehopefully he's doing better, unlikely though it may
dreamrealI hope he is
dreamrealI'm actually really happy with nevet's progress: I really want to figure out the auth issues (and kinabalu DOES have experience here) but that's the main blocker
bluedreamreal: with all due respect, kinabalu is talking out of his butt. auth0 is just an abstraction, it doesn't solve the fundamental issue. you STILL need the whole acl dance. auth0 doesn't save you from that, it's just an identity layer
dreamrealOkay: he has a chance to back up the claim.
blueand honestly if your framework has something like passportjs or spring security then just go with that. delegating nonsense to the cloud is what clowns do
bluethis guy just heard auth0 somewhere and now he's parroting it
dreamrealIt's a little more than that: he may be misunderstanding the problem we're trying to solve
dreamrealit's not just "are you who you say you are" but we need to have an idea of who you say you are, too
bluethen maybe he ought to read the entire issue instead of pooping all over it with like four words
dreamrealSure! But that's why I'm pushing back, too
blueI don't like when people do this: if several people took the time to think about something, and you just come around and dismiss it with half a sentence, then you're either a genius or a moron. in most cases, a moron
blueso basically: Identity Proof -> Internal User -> Role -> ACL -> Service Binding
bluethe ONLY thing auth0 'solves' is the first step. and you don't need a huge dance to solve it yourself
blueauth0 is basically an SSO. which is something you use when you have MANY services all sharing the same underlying user pool. you CAN use it for one app, but it's a total overkill imho. what happens if a user wants to change his email? this now becomes an indirection dance where you need to change it both in your db and in auth0's. or you don't store it at all, which means showing it is solely relying on JWT.